Charlie Sheen Has An Awesome Experience, This Time With Drugs and A Hooker, Which Was The Same As Last Time
Sheen appeared highly intoxicated when officers arrived to his room around 1:30 a.m., and a woman with him said they had been out drinking and partying that night, according to a law enforcement official. She said he was yelling and tossing furniture when they returned to the room
The part not in this paragraph is that he was naked, she was naked, she was a prostitute, and she was hiding in the closet. Cocaine was probably involved. Also, he had just spent the day with his ex-wife and their kids, all who were asleep in the next room. That's class.
First, the drugs. I know this isn't a particularly psychiatric thing for me to say, but I like dropping truth bombs on the unsuspecting: lots of people get drunk and high and... do nothing. Watch Craig Ferguson. Play Xbox. Take a nap. Go to work.
I'm not condoning it, but our minds get tripped up at the drugs as if therein lies the majority of the explanation, and I'm sure Charlie et al would like us to stop there as well.
This goes for psychiatric illness, should he have one. "He's bipolar." So? Seriously, what am I supposed to do with that? Society can't have it both ways, you can't tell me "it's a hurtful stereotype that the mentally ill are violent" and then 180 it and say "he got violent because he was mentally ill." Sometimes they go together, sometimes they don't, but you can't offer either one as an "everybody knows that" and hide behind your postmodernism.
Second, he has no incentive to stop. There's a physical toll on his body, I guess, but meanwhile he's having drunken sex with super hot women-- so what if they're prostitutes--partying, going to clubs, etc. He trashed the Plaza Hotel. That's where he's at with his addiction, the Plaza Hotel. He's three moongates away from anything resembling rock bottom.
When he gets caught, he gets a slap on the wrist and his show gets picked up for another season. The picture they splash all over the news that reflects his insanity is this one:
I'm not advocating punishing him, but you can see that the whole system is set up to keep him going at this level. Surprise. He does. If you're wondering why this nut doesn't change his life, it's because you pay him not to.
"He's not a bad guy, he just has a problem." Actually, you have that backwards, he doesn't have a problem, he is a bad guy. I know this because he beat up (allegedly, at least) two women. This isn't the place to get into whether the bitch done deserved it, running her mouth all damn night long, the point is his thinking about it. If I (allegedly) beat up a girlfriend, I'd feel TREMENDOUS guilt, I would really have to rethink the need for my existence. I'd also be scared that she'd call the cops and shamed as a woman beater, ruining my life and/or career; and I'd be Ed Norton 25th Hour terrified of going to jail. Charlie Sheen apparently feels none of these fears, at all, ever. After he beat up the first bitch who deserved it he should have sworn of bitches just out of self-preservation, but no, back into the mix, and if the next one gets out of line she'll be getting the People's Elbow.
That's narcissism-- "writ large" as they say in magazines that suck. Even if the drugs made him completely insane, the fact is that he regularly puts himself in situations that involve something getting punched, and the only explanation for that is that he doesn't see rules as objectively applying to him, he only sees his behavior as situational, in his context. In other words, there's always this: "well, hold on, this is a different situation, let me explain..." followed by two hours of words. There's always an explanation, it's always different this time, which just means it's exactly the same.
"It's an addiction, he can't stop." Put the microphone down, wildman. Everyone can stop. You may be bad at math but your brain is doing math all the time and it calculates to the millivolt whether the reward is worth it. Internal forces conspire against you, for sure-- maybe it values things wrongly and maybe your body tries to to trick you when you want to quit by making you more hungry so you eat more, or more anxious so you drink more, more bored, more angry, maybe you remember more vivdly that your wife cheated that one time, or that Karen is dead-- whatever-- but it still ends up being a binary question, "do I do it or not?" You can argue that the scales are loaded one way or another but it is a scale nonetheless. The secret of the universe is this: all decisions are binary. You will never be happy if you fight this.
I can help you with your choice, with varying success, but when you are punching other people and that isn't enough to get you to stop no one can help you. Before you say, "I want to stop drinking" you have to first have thought it more important to say, out loud, "I want to stop punching people." The latter is for the good of others; the former is for yourself, with the byproduct of being good for others. That's why it fails.
Denise Richards got him to the hospital, and is now trying to protect her kids from Charlie's nonsense and media exposure. You know how I know that? She was on TV blabbing about it. I certainly don't fault her, but the desire to interpret personal events in a public forum changes the meaning of the events. "My fans are going to want to know." Sure they want to, but that doesn't mean you should tell them. In fact, for your own good as well as theirs, you shouldn't.
The result is it goes from being outstandingly negative to almost positive. If you hired a prostitute or punched a girlfriend you'd hardly put it on your Facebook, but this gets written up in TMZ as Sheen The Party Wildman. Cool. The male deconstruction of it is, "man, if that was me, I wouldn't be trashing the hotel room..." That's where he went wrong, see? He took it too far, but the lifestyle sounds enviable... and anyway he sounds like he'd be fun to hang out with, right? Ladies? Am I right?
If the repercussions for nonsense and punching your girlfriend is another girlfriend and more nonsense, it's hard to identify a reason to stop. Which is why it won't. But you're being lied to, by yourself. And now I'm not talking about Charlie Sheen, I'm talking about you.